BY JENNA CRATER

Some of my most fulfilling moments as a social worker come from watching young people rediscover their worth and voice.

Recently, I had the joy of taking two foster girls—ages 13 and 16—on a special trip to see “Van Gogh: The Immersive Experience” in Winston-Salem. Both teens are talented artists, and I wanted them to see how creativity can be both a reflection of pain and a pathway toward healing.

When we stepped into the exhibit, we were surrounded by swirling color and light—Van Gogh’s paintings brought to life in every direction. We talked about his struggles with mental health and how, even through darkness, he continued to create beauty. The girls connected deeply with his story; they, too, have known hardship and moments of feeling unseen.

We paused to reflect on his words: “Success comes with a string of failures” and “Due to our fate, we are forced to be courageous.”

The teens spoke about what courage looks like in their own lives—showing up, expressing emotions through art, and making positive choices despite difficult circumstances. We practiced stillness and patience, resisting the pull of instant gratification. For a little while, the world slowed down, and they were truly present.

As part of the experience, the girls received Starry Night VIP passes, lanyards, and Van Gogh posters—small treasures symbolizing that they, too, are part of something beautiful and meaningful. They also had the opportunity to display their own artwork, standing proudly as others admired their creativity.

Seeing their faces light up with pride was a moment I’ll never forget.

After the exhibit, we shared dinner at Carrabba’s Italian Grill, where they enjoyed the experience of choosing anything they wanted from the menu, using cloth napkins, and full-service dining. What might seem ordinary for some was an extraordinary moment of dignity, joy, and belonging for them. We laughed, reflected on the day, and celebrated their courage to keep moving forward.

This day was about more than art—it was about connection, confidence, and belonging. It reminded me that healing can begin in simple, powerful ways: through creativity, shared experiences, and the unwavering belief that every young person deserves beauty and joy in their lives. This is what the Lonely Children’s Fund does; it changes the lives of our children, giving them real-life experiences.

Please take time to donate to the Lonely Children’s Fund, and make a difference in the lives of the children in foster care in Iredell County. The Lonely Children’s Fund goal for the 2025-2026 holiday season is $30,000. We are hopeful that the community will overflow this fund with their donations, as these children deserve the very best. Every contribution, no matter the size, gives a young person in foster care the support they need to thrive.

HOW TO GIVE

Please send checks and money orders payable to:

Lonely Children’s Fund
Attention: Iredell County DSS 
549 Eastside Drive 
Statesville, NC 28625

Jenna Crater is a Foster Care Social Worker III with the Iredell County Department of Social Services.